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Enhancing the Field Through Conflict
Conflict is necessary to build trust and connection in any relationship. In truly healthy and balanced relationships, conflicts are moved through together. The process of moving through conflict together by
Sensing Human Dynamics: Unlocking the Hidden Potential in the Field
We are not given a guidebook or instruction manual for human interactions. Most of what we learn comes intuitively without any formal training. Yet, social interactions are some of the
The Science of the Empathic Field
All my adult life I have been passionately seeking a union between the two worlds of the mind and of the heart. In practice I am a technologist, engineer, and
Who is the Center of Parenting?
When we talk about parenting, many people might think the children are the center. However, the most effective parenting is centered on the parent(s). In a heart-centered way of being,
Freeing Our Children from Addiction to Technology
Addiction to technology is one of the greatest threats that our children will face as they mature. It’s not just children who are addicted to technology. Our modern world runs
Narcissism in the Family
We all have an ego. The ego is like our psychological skin; it holds our sense of self together, and literally is our sense of self. Children are in a
A Science to Raise Human Consciousness – A Brief Overview of Heart-Centered ABA
Heart-Centered ABA is a new branch of behavior science based on the heart. It synthesizes conventional Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) with tools and frames from Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnotherapy, Waldorf Education,
Raising Consciousness: The Journey in Waking Up to our True Potential
Albert Einstein famously said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” We’ve certainly created a vast array of problems in
Empathy: The Saving Grace for these Dark Times
In every dark tunnel there is a ray of hope; every night ends in sunrise. Empathy is a force like light and hope for humanity. I write a lot about
How to Practice Empathy Most Effectively
Empathy is one of the most vital skills we can develop and use in our times and for all times. In its essence, empathy is the ability to place ourselves
Loving Ourselves Out of Harshness
Have you ever been absolutely convinced of something to later find out you were wrong? I sure have. Recently, I discovered just how deeply I could miss the mark. In
Empathy for Insects
As we open our hearts, we begin to love all creatures great and small. Empathy is the ability to feel and understand another. It is my belief that using empathy
What the Heck is Heart-Centered Anyway?
As a child I cared deeply about other people. When people were bullied, it hurt my heart. When insects were needlessly killed, I cried out in pain and anger. When
Breaking the Narcissist Spell
If you’ve had the unfortunate (or fortunate) opportunity to be close to a narcissist, you know the intense spell or trance they can put you in. I say unfortunate because
A Molestation of the Soul: Exposing the Subtle Evil of Narcissism
Narcissism results in the molestation of the soul. This molestation starts in the one who engages in narcissism and continues with all who they relate to in any degree or
Curing Narcissism with a Spectrum of Understanding
If we cured narcissism, I believe we would have a world that works for everyone. All the problems in our society from rape to murder, war, torture, greed, and economic
Narcissism: A Field Distortion
I avoided the label of narcissism like the plague. I thought it was just another overused catch phrase referring to extreme self-centeredness, and it is. Narcissism is a buzzword that
Connection is the Way, the Truth and the Light
Our society is sick with disconnection. Everyone experiences this, no matter their circumstance. However, I believe autistic and developmentally delayed youth and adults may be more acutely aware of the
Leadership at the Heart of All Business
When we place our heart at the center of all our endeavors, we naturally care about all our relations, humanity, and the earth. The Heart-Centered Operating System (HCOS) is one
Visionary Leadership
Leadership was like a guiding star for me. I always paid close attention to my favorite teachers. In high school I first became conscious of the leaders around me. The
The Truth About Emotional Regulation
None of us are regulated. We are predominantly in a heightened state of fear almost constantly that’s keeping us trapped in our minds and unable to tune into what is
